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Reality TV star Uriel Oputa has shared a heartfelt reflection after meeting a lady at the gym whose weight loss journey left her deeply moved.
Uriel explained that she had always admired the young woman for her beauty, energy, and amazing physique. However, on this particular day, she looked completely different.
“I almost didn’t recognize her. She had lost so much weight, but that same beautiful face was still there. I asked her, ‘Did you use any kind of weight loss injections?’ She said, ‘No, heartbreak,’” Uriel revealed.
The response, Uriel said, made her reflect on the way many men in today’s generation handle relationships.
She wrote:
“Too many men want to be looked after, want to be treated like princesses. Not all, but a lot don’t give assurance, don’t give the right communication, don’t give the kind of energy that would even allow a woman to treat them like kings. And when things don’t go their way, they just move on to the next. Spoilt for choice. No accountability.”
Uriel concluded with advice for both men and women, urging everyone to take responsibility for their roles in relationships:
“The truth is, both men and women need to start taking responsibility for our actions, our emotions, our relationships. If you want to be treated a certain way, you have to provide the foundation for it. You can’t demand to be treated like a king while giving off peasant vibes.”
